Salt & Light in a World of Desire

Lately I have been thinking about life and how it seems the world accepts ungodly behavior and passes it off as godly. And we are teaching all of this to our children! I too was so guilty of this in my past. But praise God I am not who I use to be and we overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony. I have committed my share of sins and I am not perfect by no means; but as I grow in my walk with God I am learning every day. My desire is to please God with all that I am and not this world or anyone in it. As I write this post; please know that I am not passing judgment; however God commands me to share His Word and I will be obedient.

Last week a friend of mine asked me a question and at that time I had forgotten about a word from God that was given to me in September 2016. My friend said in a text “You want a man, can’t find one, asked God, He told you to calm down and wait. Stop trying to do it on your own. Am I right?” My response was “Actually I am not looking, but I have asked God and I know when the time is right then he will find me. The word given to me on September 9, 2016 was:”I have your mate, stop looking. He will appear out of nowhere and you will know without a shadow of a doubt he’s the one. He will treat you like the princess you are. And you will have to pinch yourself to see if it’s real because he will treat you so well”. So I have to change my response to my friend and say, yes, God has told me to stop. For as we see when I go searching; I end up with a mess!

Man was formed from dirt (Genesis 2:7) but God took time to design woman and with a purpose (Genesis 2:22). We ladies were created to be a helper to man. In Genesis 2:18 it states, The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make a helper suitable for him.” Eve was formed to complete Adam and she was made uniquely suited to his needs.  Woman was made from the man, for the man, and given as Gods gift to man.  (Corinthians 11:8-9) Ladies, we were formed uniquely for the man that God has chosen; thus being submissive unto him and our second purpose is to be a mother (Genesis 1:28). Proverbs 31 describes the perfect woman. Although these are not our only jobs as women; but being a wife and mother are our primary purposes for being created.

Ladies, it is biblical that the man finds us; we aren’t suppose to be out searching and chasing after a man. Proverbs 18:22 states, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord. Right here we cheat our husband out of a blessing if we go finding him or perhaps we find the wrong one! Look at it this way; if you are his rib don’t you think he can find you!?? See this is something that I have had to learn myself, because I never understood the biblical principles behind a marriage until after three divorces and writing this blog for God. As Christians we are commissioned by God to be the salt and light in this earth. Salt represents a life living through God’s Wisdom vs. living in the world and salt is vital and valuable (Matthew 5:13-14) because with the lack of salt we loose life. God looks at our lives not our lip service and we are to live by faith, not by sight. We are to be a clean vessel (2 Timothy 2:14-25) and although in this world; we are to not be of it. So ladies, stop looking for a man and allow God to move in your life. And remember we are teaching the younger girls by the way we live our life and everything that we do.

***Hebrews 11:1-6

When we become so occupied trying to find a man; we loose the connection of the most precious man ever, our Heavenly Father! And whatever or whomever we put before God; He will take it. I know that even after I accepted Christ as my Savior in January 2008 I still had a lot to learn. With my marriage being on the rocks and my life falling apart, I left in November 2010 to live where I am now. I had hoped that things would eventually work out; but they never did. And just before I got my divorce; a friend of mine set me up with a man. I know now that it was wrong for in Gods eyes for I was still married. Needless to say, I fell into sexual sin and had put him before God and the relationship didn’t last. However, during this time of dating him I did get my divorce and then I was searching for something that no person could give me. Pastor Jim always tells us that hope in people will always disappoint us because people will let us down, but God never will. Sin is anything that we put above God. We search for someone or something to fill voids but only our Heavenly Father can do that.

Ladies, just like most earthly Fathers delight in giving to his children, our Heavenly Father delights in giving us the things we desire – but not all of them (Psalm 37:4-5). God desires to give us what is best for us. There are times when we desire something that we think is good for us; but God sees it would ultimately not be. He knows who and what we need and he knows who or what would be a hindrance. So when we pray for something we want; let us remember that some of the things we desire may not be good for us; we will have to wait. Let us not be in such a rush for what we want that we mess up the work of God. We must be patient. Everything is in Gods timing; not ours. It’s when we take things into our own hands and put God on the back burner that things will go array. God wants the best for us, his children. So remember we curse ourselves if we don’t obey God and honor Him first. And if God is truly first in our life; everything will fall into place. He watches over us and keeps us from harm (Psalm 121:7-8) and as we honor Him first, He honors us with provision and protection.

With three divorces; the devil has tried to tell me that I will never marry again. But I know that to not be true for God has shown me several times in different ways and I have seen my husband and myself standing before the church getting married. Also, on September 18, 2016 it came to me “When you do first things first and be obedient; I will send your husband.” (Matthew 6:33 {NIV} But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.) I will occupy the very place the devil is trying to keep me out of by being obedient, speaking Gods Word and keeping my faith!

***Hebrews 10:35-38

Keep the faith, trust God and if you haven’t accepted Christ as your Savior ask Him today to be the Lord of you life. Repent of your sins and receive eternal life. Trust me; this is one relationship you don’t want to miss out on! And if you have accepted Christ my dear single ladies; keep Him first in your life. I promise  you will not regret it! God will send your Boaz and he will see you working in His field.

To God Be All the Glory, Honor & Praise!

XOXOXO,

Donna

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Taken from Erin Davis’ blog post “Why Were Women Created Anyway?” Used with permission from www.LiesYoungWomenBelieve

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